DayPilot.Month.multiselect.remove(e, dontRedraw);
For bulk operations, use dontRedraw = true and call multiselect.redraw() after all changes have been made.
Unselect an event manually in the custom EventClick handler.
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EventClickHandling="JavaScript" EventClickJavaScript="eventClick(e)"
JavaScript
function eventClick(e) { dpm.multiselect.remove(e); }